Sadness is inevitable. Na chahte hue bhi ho hi jaata hai. Kabhi koi choti baat ho gayi, ghar mein kisi family member se koi conflict agar ho gaya to Mindset ke changes mein dukh hona to obvious hi hai.
Lekin phir bhi mera ye maanana hai ki bhale hi aapko kitna hi dukh kyon na ho - Bina Situations se lade hue Rona start kar dena ye to bilkul bhi achi baat nahi hai.
Lekin phir bhi mera ye maanana hai ki bhale hi aapko kitna hi dukh kyon na ho - Bina Situations se lade hue Rona start kar dena ye to bilkul bhi achi baat nahi hai.
Is point of time mein aapko aisa lag raha hoga ki main ye kya kah raha hun. Kabhi kabhi to aisa situation aa jata hai ki agar aadmi roye nahi to kya kare. Aisa lagta hai jaise Sir to dard se blast hi ho jaayega.
Kyunki hamare man ki baatein ya to hum kisi se kahein ya phir ghut kar mar jaayein.
Kyunki hamare man ki baatein ya to hum kisi se kahein ya phir ghut kar mar jaayein.
Bas ek alternative ke roop mein hum ro kar apne dard ko kam kar sakte hain. Isiliye main apne hi quote ka justification is prakar se deta hun:
Chaliye ab baatein bahut ho gayin. Ab baat karte hain is article mein, un reasons ki jisse humein yah pata chalta hai ki kisi bhi situation mein Sadness se paresaan ho kar, Feelings of Disgust se bhar kar kabhi Rona nahi chahiye.
1. Sheer Wastage of Precious Time
Sabse pahle to baat karte hain us samay ki jo kisi matter ko solve karne se pahle hum rone mein spend kar dete hain. Arey bhai, jo hona tha ab to vo ho gaya - Lekin iska matlab to ye nahi hai na ki ab sar par haath rakh kar hi baith jaayein. Apna problem to koi baahar wala aakar solve karega nahi.
2. An Opportunity To Resolution is Lost
Har problem apne hone ke baad use solve karne ka ek opportunity chod jaati hai. Agar hum use dekh nahi paate hain aur kisi aur tension mein busy ho jaate hain to mauka haath se nikal jaata hai. Aur mauka haath se nikla matlab ye samajh lena chahiye ki ab vo kabhi laut kar vapas aane wala nahi hai.
3. Sadness Becomes More Habitual
Yahan ye samajhna jaruri hai ki kisi problem ke hone par agar aapka pahla option rone ka hota hai to isse aapke rone ki probability badhti rahti hai. In simple words, Kisi sequence mein aap jo kaam sabse pahle karte hain, vahi aapki habit aur baad mein aapke nature ka hissa ban jaati hai.
In the same sequence, jab bhi aap rote ho, bhale hi vo khusi ke aansu kyun na ho - Aapki sadness ki sequence reactivate ho jati hai aur aap automatically dukhi hone lagte hain.
4. Life is More Valuable
Aap jaante hain Life ka kitna value hai? Even sahi bata raha hun, Bill Gates ya Mark Zuckerberg bhi agar chaahe to khud ko marne se nahi rok sakta.
Death to sabka kabhi na kabhi hone hi wala hai. Isiliye aapne dekha hoga ki kaise ameer log bhale hi business ke kaam mein laakho ghar ujaad dein lekin Guilt kabhi feel nahi karte. Kyunki inhe pata hai ki unke life ka value kya hai aur isse vo kitna profit kamaa sakte hain.
Conclusion
Time ka loss hona, Life ke value ko samajhna, Sadness ko Habit banne se rokna And Opportunity ko haath se jaane se bachana - Bas itna hi tha na, ya aur kuch bhi tha. Ek baar check kar lijiye.
Chaliye apki itni icha hai to jaate jaate ek quote ke saath aapko chod kar jaata hun. Lekin yaad rakhiyega, Next article mein mulkaat jarur honi chahiye.
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Very nice....
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